In the mood of love : It's easy to neglect romance at home, especially as errands and household chores pile up. But your house is an excellent place to ignite romantic sparks. "Romance can and should flourish in the home because it's where people are most comfortable," says Leslie Karsner, author and romance coach. The good news is that it's easy and inexpensive to create a romantic mood. Enjoy a more beautiful home, and a more exciting love life, by following these tips to tease your partner's five senses.
Nothing is worse than boring sex! We all want our intimacy to be exciting, passionate, and intense. However, truth be told, great sex doesn’t always happen overnight, particularly in long-term relationships in which the same “routine” is often applied.
Rest assured, sex doesn’t have to be run-of-the-mill, no matter how long you've been together! Here are some great ways to increase the excitement in your relationship and get your hearts pumping in the bedroom:
Initiate something new, all on your own. Many times couples expect their partner to take their lead. They want more romance, more excitement, and more passion, yet they do nothing to create it themselves. They just sit back and wait for their partner to wake up one day and read their mind! Well, it’s not going to happen that way. You have to take the initiative, make the first move,and spice things up with your own two hands.
Try starting off the day by leaning over and giving your partner a deep, sensual kiss, or join him in the shower after he gets home from the gym. Find little ways to surprise him into remembering how sexy and spontaneous you are!
Bring it out of the bedroom. If you want intercourse to be more exciting, try switching up the venue! Sure, the bedroom is great, and most couples have experimented in their bathroom as well — but what about the kitchen, the back porch, or even the car? Just by having sex somewhere new (and somewhere slightly scandalous) you can get out of a sex rut and embrace your inner daredevil!
Don’t be afraid of a little kink. Erotica and sex toys get a bad rap in our society. People tend to think that these sexy items are for "freaks" or, at the very least, for singles only. But this isn’t the case! Plenty of couples have found that erotica spices up their sex drives and keeps them adventurous, and you and your mate will no doubt find the same. And, don’t fret, ladies. If you aren’t into hardcore pornography (let’s face it, those adult movies are made with men in mind), there are plenty of female-friendly erotic films out there that feature actual plotlines and realistic body parts!
If you aren’t ready for erotica or sex toys just yet, try playing with a little light bondage or role-play. It’s okay if you feel silly or awkward at first, just stick with it and have fun!
Don’t believe the hype. No matter what you see featured in romantic movies, the truth is that every couple experiences ebbs and flows in the bedroom, and everyone has to work to keep their sex life fresh and fun. Don’t get caught up in the idea that there is something wrong with your relationship if you have to schedule in date nights and sex, or that intimacy shouldn’t take effort and preparation. Relationships are about communicating and staying committed, even when it comes to what happens between the sheets.
Put in a little extra effort to keep your sex life exciting — and you'll reap the benefits!
Don’t believe the hype. No matter what you see featured in romantic movies, the truth is that every couple experiences ebbs and flows in the bedroom, and everyone has to work to keep their sex life fresh and fun. Don’t get caught up in the idea that there is something wrong with your relationship if you have to schedule in date nights and sex, or that intimacy shouldn’t take effort and preparation. Relationships are about communicating and staying committed, even when it comes to what happens between the sheets.
Put in a little extra effort to keep your sex life exciting — and you'll reap the benefits!
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