Sex can be pretty confusing. You may have been told that sex is a sacred act between two married people who love each other very much. But then you turn on your TV and you see quite a different story - people using sex to earn their living, people having casual or meaningless sex, using it to get revenge or to control people, or using it to advertise everything from soft drinks to vacuum cleaners.
The point is, there's a lot of bad information floating around about sex. But the fact that majority are doing it does not make it right. And while you may have already had "The Sex Talk" with your parents, you may still have a few questions. Your parents, your pastor, your teachers or your doctor would likely be happy to answer your questions, but let's face it, some of this stuff can be pretty embarrassing; But the TRUTH remains that ''Sex Is Sacred and is meant to be between husband and wife who are married''. The wrong use of it may result to fatal destiny distortion and eternal regret in life; many folks that are supposed to be great men and women in various field of life today had been reduced to nonentity by the wrong use of sex. Many families, marriages, establishments of various kind had crashed because of the wrong use of sex.
Wet Dreams
Sexy dreams can cause a guy to have an erection and ejaculate, or cum, during his sleep. When he wakes up, he's wet and sticky. This is a wet dream. The same occurs in girls, but the amount of moisture they produce is much less, and therefore it's not as noticeable. Wet dreams are pretty common at young age, but they don't happen to everybody, so don't worry if it doesn't happen to you.
Please don't misunderstand wet dreams and real sexual intercourse in the dreams, sexual intercourse in the dream can mean spiritual danger to the person involved. Therefore it is the best to be having sex in the dreams. This affects male and female.
Fantasies
Fantasies are a safe way to explore your sexual desires. They're not weird, everybody has them and they don't make you a "pervert", so don't feel guilty about having them. But be careful, fantasizing about the opposite sex may lead to sexual misconduct in the nearest future. Fantasies help you learn more about yourself and your romantic feelings, without having to act on them. They help you figure out what turns you on and what you're comfortable with. You can learn a lot from fantasies - what you want to do and what you don't - but a lot of fantasies will just stay as fantasies. It's normal for people to fantasize about things that they wouldn't be comfortable doing in real life. Or your fantasies can set the stage for real-life situations, and prepare you to act in a way that is true to yourself. They allow you to imagine having sex...without any of the real-life consequences.
In some cases, your fantasies may become too big a part of your day.and you may spend more time in your head than on earth. Or, your fantasies become so life-like that you find it hard to hold back from trying them out in real life. In these situations, it may help to talk to someone you trust to help sort out your feelings. Like i warned, ''be careful and put your feelings under adequate check.
The Bottom Line
Do what you need to do to answer your questions. Read books, fantasize, and ask a trusted friend lots of questions. Or if you're comfortable, you can talk to your doctor, a school nurse, or a pharmacists - remember, unless you are in danger or have broken the law, whatever you talk about with your health care provider is confidential. Just remember that getting answers to your questions will help you grow as a healthy, mature sexual being.
You might find it embarrassing to ask questions about sex, but just think: If and when you decide to have sex, don't you want to be sure that you've done your homework? If you think it's embarrassing to ask questions now, just think how embarrassing it would be later when you could not perform your sexual responsibility to your spouse!
The point is, there's a lot of bad information floating around about sex. But the fact that majority are doing it does not make it right. And while you may have already had "The Sex Talk" with your parents, you may still have a few questions. Your parents, your pastor, your teachers or your doctor would likely be happy to answer your questions, but let's face it, some of this stuff can be pretty embarrassing; But the TRUTH remains that ''Sex Is Sacred and is meant to be between husband and wife who are married''. The wrong use of it may result to fatal destiny distortion and eternal regret in life; many folks that are supposed to be great men and women in various field of life today had been reduced to nonentity by the wrong use of sex. Many families, marriages, establishments of various kind had crashed because of the wrong use of sex.
Wet Dreams
Sexy dreams can cause a guy to have an erection and ejaculate, or cum, during his sleep. When he wakes up, he's wet and sticky. This is a wet dream. The same occurs in girls, but the amount of moisture they produce is much less, and therefore it's not as noticeable. Wet dreams are pretty common at young age, but they don't happen to everybody, so don't worry if it doesn't happen to you.
Please don't misunderstand wet dreams and real sexual intercourse in the dreams, sexual intercourse in the dream can mean spiritual danger to the person involved. Therefore it is the best to be having sex in the dreams. This affects male and female.
Fantasies
Fantasies are a safe way to explore your sexual desires. They're not weird, everybody has them and they don't make you a "pervert", so don't feel guilty about having them. But be careful, fantasizing about the opposite sex may lead to sexual misconduct in the nearest future. Fantasies help you learn more about yourself and your romantic feelings, without having to act on them. They help you figure out what turns you on and what you're comfortable with. You can learn a lot from fantasies - what you want to do and what you don't - but a lot of fantasies will just stay as fantasies. It's normal for people to fantasize about things that they wouldn't be comfortable doing in real life. Or your fantasies can set the stage for real-life situations, and prepare you to act in a way that is true to yourself. They allow you to imagine having sex...without any of the real-life consequences.
In some cases, your fantasies may become too big a part of your day.and you may spend more time in your head than on earth. Or, your fantasies become so life-like that you find it hard to hold back from trying them out in real life. In these situations, it may help to talk to someone you trust to help sort out your feelings. Like i warned, ''be careful and put your feelings under adequate check.
The Bottom Line
Do what you need to do to answer your questions. Read books, fantasize, and ask a trusted friend lots of questions. Or if you're comfortable, you can talk to your doctor, a school nurse, or a pharmacists - remember, unless you are in danger or have broken the law, whatever you talk about with your health care provider is confidential. Just remember that getting answers to your questions will help you grow as a healthy, mature sexual being.
You might find it embarrassing to ask questions about sex, but just think: If and when you decide to have sex, don't you want to be sure that you've done your homework? If you think it's embarrassing to ask questions now, just think how embarrassing it would be later when you could not perform your sexual responsibility to your spouse!
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